Written by: Jocke translated by: Profossgbg
I have had submissive thoughts since the adolescence began, and they have developed over time. It has been and is an exciting personal journey. My biggest personal development I did when I found the Lady Misatos site about matriarki, then the coin really fell down for me.
I knew early on that this was something I wanted to experience, but it was not easy to get in touch online, so I started a meeting place for people interested in femdom, the name became the Queens of Dreams.
My tips to you who are in the beginning of your BDSM journey is to think through what you want to get out of the world of BDSM, and who you want to be within it.
To get a serious contact online, you need to be honest and give a nice impression through image and words. Of course you should respond to the dominant on the web in the same way you meet people in your normal life.
To manage to find what you are looking for is not easy, there are many things that should be in a relationship for it to work. For me I am most comfortable as a submissive, both sexually and socially, against my partner. It is of course different for everyone, and how much bdsm one wants in one’s life, it is worth pondering over. It is easiest to find what you are looking for, if you know what you are looking for.
All the best
Jocke